Comments on: The Modern Courtesan Experience http://www.ainamontero.com/the-modern-courtesan-experience/ Personal Companion | Private Concierge Sun, 13 Dec 2009 03:56:59 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: The Universal Courtesan – Will The Real Courtesans Please Stand Up? http://www.ainamontero.com/the-modern-courtesan-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-11 The Universal Courtesan – Will The Real Courtesans Please Stand Up? Sun, 13 Dec 2009 03:56:59 +0000 http://www.ainamontero.com/?p=248#comment-11 [...] More specifically, the modern Courtesan has a level of training in social etiquette that is comparable to a ‘debutante’. This means she is well-educated as opposed to having just attended school, can demonstrate leadership, dependability, and a heart for giving to charity – (charity comes from the Latin word charis meaning beauty and kindness, which comes from the compassion of a healer). She may be able to speak multiple languages fluently and even able to play at least one instrument and dance well. When you go out with her publicly you feel comfortable with her because she is diplomatic, respectful, knows dining etiquette, and the polite use of a cell-phone. Also, she carefully selects her stylish clothing, adorns her body, knowing the difference between elegantly sexy and trashy, and she carries herself with poise and charm. She will save the enticing garments and special requests for private time later. At any time, you can have stimulating conversations because she is sober, well-spoken, and has a depth of understanding in many subjects – the arts, politics, science and particularly many facets of human sexuality. She is careful to speak gracefully and to articulately express herself in a wide vocabulary, with little or no obscenities; but will leave that for the occasional ‘dirty talk’ to tease you behind closed doors. She is truly exclusive with her clientele, and doesn’t just state this falsely and then accept all requests just to get as much money as possible. This type of provider can’t be considered an option for an elite gentleman looking for a woman who is discriminating. There is a unique connection that occurs between the courtesan and her chosen client – they can enhance each others’ lives. Also, to quote a fellow associate, “The modern courtesan is… well-traveled, familiar with more than one culture, knowledgeable about current affairs… and comfortable in a variety of social situations.” (Aina Montero) [...] [...] More specifically, the modern Courtesan has a level of training in social etiquette that is comparable to a ‘debutante’. This means she is well-educated as opposed to having just attended school, can demonstrate leadership, dependability, and a heart for giving to charity – (charity comes from the Latin word charis meaning beauty and kindness, which comes from the compassion of a healer). She may be able to speak multiple languages fluently and even able to play at least one instrument and dance well. When you go out with her publicly you feel comfortable with her because she is diplomatic, respectful, knows dining etiquette, and the polite use of a cell-phone. Also, she carefully selects her stylish clothing, adorns her body, knowing the difference between elegantly sexy and trashy, and she carries herself with poise and charm. She will save the enticing garments and special requests for private time later. At any time, you can have stimulating conversations because she is sober, well-spoken, and has a depth of understanding in many subjects – the arts, politics, science and particularly many facets of human sexuality. She is careful to speak gracefully and to articulately express herself in a wide vocabulary, with little or no obscenities; but will leave that for the occasional ‘dirty talk’ to tease you behind closed doors. She is truly exclusive with her clientele, and doesn’t just state this falsely and then accept all requests just to get as much money as possible. This type of provider can’t be considered an option for an elite gentleman looking for a woman who is discriminating. There is a unique connection that occurs between the courtesan and her chosen client – they can enhance each others’ lives. Also, to quote a fellow associate, “The modern courtesan is… well-traveled, familiar with more than one culture, knowledgeable about current affairs… and comfortable in a variety of social situations.” (Aina Montero) [...]

]]> By: Aspasia http://www.ainamontero.com/the-modern-courtesan-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-8 Aspasia Thu, 04 Dec 2008 02:13:25 +0000 http://www.ainamontero.com/?p=248#comment-8 Fantastic definition, though I have to agree with Alexa too. But this is a great standard to aspire to. Fantastic definition, though I have to agree with Alexa too. But this is a great standard to aspire to.

]]> By: Aina Montero http://www.ainamontero.com/the-modern-courtesan-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-7 Aina Montero Mon, 24 Nov 2008 17:01:43 +0000 http://www.ainamontero.com/?p=248#comment-7 Alexa & Crysta, Thanks so much for your feedback! I love the phrase "sexually articulate," and I will certainly use it the next time I describe myself to a potential lover. However, I prefer to keep explicit sexuality and paid companionship separate. Of course, that is only my preference, and others may choose to manage their affairs differently. But those others won't be able to use the term "Modern Courtesan Experience" in their advertising! People see things very differently at 32 than they did at 23, but at this point in my life, I would very much hate to see myself or my patrons caught up in the same type of scandal as Ashley Dupre and Eliot Spitzer. For that reason, and many others, I will continue to offer private companionship for a fee, but not sexual services. XOXO, Aina Alexa & Crysta,

Thanks so much for your feedback! I love the phrase “sexually articulate,” and I will certainly use it the next time I describe myself to a potential lover.

However, I prefer to keep explicit sexuality and paid companionship separate. Of course, that is only my preference, and others may choose to manage their affairs differently.

But those others won’t be able to use the term “Modern Courtesan Experience” in their advertising!

People see things very differently at 32 than they did at 23, but at this point in my life, I would very much hate to see myself or my patrons caught up in the same type of scandal as Ashley Dupre and Eliot Spitzer.

For that reason, and many others, I will continue to offer private companionship for a fee, but not sexual services.

XOXO,
Aina

]]> By: The Modern Courtesan | The 'Real' Princess Diaries http://www.ainamontero.com/the-modern-courtesan-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-6 The Modern Courtesan | The 'Real' Princess Diaries Sun, 23 Nov 2008 21:39:08 +0000 http://www.ainamontero.com/?p=248#comment-6 [...] I think there is, even if there is no universally-agreed upon descriptor for it.  Aina Montero, an Ecuadorian escort, seems to agree and has coined a new term that seems to have potential for these times:  The Modern Courtesan.  And she’s developed a pretty decent description of it.  From her blog: [...] [...] I think there is, even if there is no universally-agreed upon descriptor for it.  Aina Montero, an Ecuadorian escort, seems to agree and has coined a new term that seems to have potential for these times:  The Modern Courtesan.  And she’s developed a pretty decent description of it.  From her blog: [...]

]]> By: Crysta http://www.ainamontero.com/the-modern-courtesan-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-5 Crysta Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:35:28 +0000 http://www.ainamontero.com/?p=248#comment-5 I really like the phrase and I feel that the description is perfect. Thank you for developing a professional phrase with a model for those who are offering a courtesan experience beyond that of the current escort model! I believe keeping anything "sexual" out of the equation maintains that the level of companionship will be a truely professional experience. I really like the phrase and I feel that the description is perfect. Thank you for developing a professional phrase with a model for those who are offering a courtesan experience beyond that of the current escort model!

I believe keeping anything “sexual” out of the equation maintains that the level of companionship will be a truely professional experience.

]]> By: AlexaD http://www.ainamontero.com/the-modern-courtesan-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-4 AlexaD Sat, 15 Nov 2008 17:46:57 +0000 http://www.ainamontero.com/?p=248#comment-4 You know, I actually like that phrase (Modern Courtesan Experience) and the description you've developed for it. Probably the only thing I would add is that the MCE should be "sexually articulate." And by that, I mean that she'd be familiar with a range of concepts associated with human sexuality and have the requisite knowledge and experience to be able to apply them to fit her client's desires. You know, I actually like that phrase (Modern Courtesan Experience) and the description you’ve developed for it. Probably the only thing I would add is that the MCE should be “sexually articulate.” And by that, I mean that she’d be familiar with a range of concepts associated with human sexuality and have the requisite knowledge and experience to be able to apply them to fit her client’s desires.

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